15 Rules for Fighting Fair in Marriage

rules of fighting fair in marriage

If you’ve been married for any longer than a minute, you’ve probably found yourself in the middle of a lovers spat. When emotions run high, fighting fair in marriage can quickly fall to the wayside. Unfortunately, unfair fighting in marriage is one of the things that can hurt a marriage. It’s especially tempting to break…

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Stop the Blame Game in Marriage

how to stop the blame game

The blame game in marriage is one of the biggest hurdles couples face when pursuing conflict resolution. It’s an unproductive pattern that every single couple faces and must and guard against. The Bible even records the blame game in marriage all the way back in Genesis. We are all familiar with Adam, Eve and eating…

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5 Ways to Change Your Marriage

be the change in your marriage

SAVE THIS PIN FOR LATER! Marriage is the toughest gig around in my opinion. It’s especially hard if you see a lot of room for improvement in your spouse. As a result, this makes my advice hard to swallow. But, here goes anyway… be the one to change in your marriage. You’re probably thinking, “Easy…

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How to Save Your Marriage: 4 Mind Shifts

save your marriage

‘How to save your marriage’ is a bold title. I hesitated to use it until I looked at the actual definition of ‘save’. One of the definitions was to keep safe or rescue from danger. Is your marriage in danger? The other definition (the one I really liked) was to preserve or guard from injury,…

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Marriage Advice for Wives

Marriage Advice for Wives

SAVE THIS PIN FOR LATER! Marriage advice… for wives? I smile as I reflect on almost 18 years of marriage. Since this is a site authored by a Christian counselor, you would think I would write marriage advice from the perspective of therapist. But no. Today I’m going to write from personal experience. Let’s get…

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